Protect Your Energy

For anyone heading into the weekend feeling behind, depleted, or numb, today’s message is simple: the system has limits. This edition supports identifying real restoration, quieting productivity guilt, and taking rest seriously as a basic need.

Today’s Quick Overview:

🔬 Science Spotlight: Sleep protects against injury…
🗣 Therapist Corner: Finish-strong pressure reality-check…
📰 Mental Health News: Mindset beats checklists; guilt vs shame…
🫂Community Voices: Permission to rest story…

Let's check in with what kind of rest your body is actually asking for:

What kind of weekend rest will actually restore you? Deep sleep? Joyful play? Gentle nothing? Or maybe all three in different doses? Listen to what your particular tired needs, not what rest is "supposed" to look like, and give yourself permission to rest in whatever way calls you.

Rest is a basic human need, but many of us have complicated relationships with it. How do you relate to rest?

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The "finish strong" narrative is everywhere this time of year, on LinkedIn, in workplace conversations, in motivational content. But here's what that messaging conveniently ignores: you've been running for eleven straight months.

Your nervous system doesn't care about calendar years or arbitrary deadlines. It cares that you're depleted, and no amount of motivational rhetoric changes that physiological reality.

December exhaustion is cumulative fatigue from sustained effort without adequate recovery. Think about it: most people have been managing work demands, relationship stress, financial pressures, health concerns, and daily life maintenance since January.

That's nearly a full year of energy expenditure, often without meaningful breaks. Your body has been keeping a running tab, and by December, the bill comes due.

The cultural obsession with "finishing strong" serves productivity culture, not human well-being. It treats people like machines that should maintain consistent output regardless of how long they've been operating.

But humans don't work that way. We have natural cycles of energy and depletion. Expecting yourself to have the same capacity in December that you had in March isn't realistic; it's a setup for failure and self-criticism.

People feel ashamed that they can't muster enthusiasm for year-end pushes, convinced that something is wrong with them. But when we actually look at what they've been managing all year, the exhaustion makes complete sense. They're not lazy or unmotivated. They're human beings who've reached the limits of what their system can sustain.

What makes this worse is that many industries genuinely do have year-end deadlines and intense Q4 demands. So people are caught between their body's legitimate need for rest and real external pressures they can't simply ignore. This creates a brutal bind where neither pushing through nor slowing down feels like a viable option.

But let's be clear about something: the expectation that you should maintain peak performance for twelve consecutive months is fundamentally unreasonable. Elite athletes build recovery into their training because they understand performance depends on rest. Somehow, we've decided that knowledge doesn't apply to regular life and work.

Give yourself permission to do the bare minimum in areas that aren't genuinely urgent. Not everything labeled "urgent" actually is. Many year-end deadlines are arbitrary, and many expectations can be renegotiated or simply not met without catastrophe.

Try This:

Then say to yourself: "My exhaustion in December is a normal response to eleven months of sustained effort. Slowing down isn't giving up." The calendar turning to January won't magically restore your energy if you completely drain yourself first. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is acknowledge your limits and protect what's left of your reserves.

Poor Sleep Nearly Doubles Your Injury Risk

The Research: Sports psychologist Jan de Jonge from Eindhoven University of Technology surveyed 425 recreational runners and discovered that those who reported shorter sleep duration, lower sleep quality, or frequent sleep problems were 1.78 times more likely to experience running injuries compared to runners who slept well.

The study found that poor sleepers had a 68% likelihood of sustaining an injury over a 12-month period. Runners who struggled with falling asleep, woke up frequently during the night, or rarely felt rested were the most injury-prone.

Why It Matters: This research challenges the mindset that dominates running culture: more training equals better performance. The study reveals that sleep is an active injury prevention tool that deserves equal priority with mileage and training intensity. When sleep is disrupted or insufficient, your body's ability to repair tissues, regulate hormones, and maintain focus all diminish, creating conditions where injury becomes far more likely.

The finding that poor sleepers are nearly twice as likely to get injured is a stark reminder that you can't out-train bad sleep. For recreational runners, especially those balancing training with work, family, and social commitments, you might actually need more sleep than average adults, not less, to recover properly from the physical demands you're placing on your body.

Try It Today: If you run regularly, treat sleep as a performance priority, not an afterthought. Establish consistent bedtimes, limit screen use before sleep, reduce caffeine and alcohol intake, and maintain a quiet, cool sleep environment. If you're struggling with recurring injuries, look at your sleep patterns before adding more miles. Track how many hours you're actually sleeping, how often you wake during the night, and whether you feel rested in the morning.

I can stop when I'm tired instead of waiting until I'm broken. My exhaustion is valid information.

Think of one time you gave yourself permission to stop before you hit empty. That rest probably helped you more than pushing through ever would have.

It's okay to be tired without having a dramatic reason. You don't need to justify exhaustion with a list of accomplishments to prove you've earned rest.

Check in with your body right now. Are you tired? If yes, say out loud or silently: "I've done enough. I'm allowed to rest." Then take one action that honors that: close your eyes for a minute, cancel something optional, go to bed early. Let tired be reason enough.

"I Stopped Waiting For Permission to Take Care of Myself"

Shared by Ellie

I always felt like I needed a reason to rest. Like I had to earn it by being sick enough, tired enough, or having done enough work first. Taking a mental health day felt like playing hooky. Saying no to plans made me feel guilty. Setting boundaries seemed selfish.

I was running on empty for months, but I kept pushing because I didn't feel like I had permission to stop. Then I mentioned to my therapist that I was exhausted but didn't feel like I could take time off because I wasn't actually sick. She asked who I was waiting to give me permission. My boss? My friends? Some official exhaustion referee?

I laughed but didn't have an answer. She asked if I'd give a friend permission to rest if they told me they were burnt out. Of course I would. So why was I holding myself to a different standard?

That question stayed with me. Why did I need external validation to take care of myself? Why was I waiting for someone to tell me it was okay to have needs?

I started small. Cancelled plans without over-explaining. Took a sick day for my mental health. Said no to a project at work when my plate was already full. Nobody questioned it. Nobody told me I was being selfish or lazy. I was the only one who could give the permission I'd been waiting for.

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Evening Reset: Notice, Write, Settle

Picture an athlete finishing a long race. No one stands at the finish line saying, "You could have run faster. Why are you breathing so hard?" Everyone understands: they gave what they had, and now they need to recover. Your life deserves the same logic. You've been running, and you're tired. That's not weakness. That's what happens to bodies and minds that show up and try. Tonight, give yourself permission to finish the race and rest.

Spend three minutes writing: What have I been pushing through despite exhaustion, and what would it mean to trust that I've already done enough for today?

Close your notebook and ask yourself: Where did I ignore my tiredness today? What message am I sending myself when I refuse to rest until I collapse? How can I honor my limits tomorrow before I exceed them?

"You've done enough. It's okay to be tired. You can take a break." — Shauna Niequist

Whatever you managed, however imperfectly, it's enough. You're allowed to be tired. You're allowed to stop. Take the break. Tired is your body telling you the truth about what it needs.

Video: You've Been Resting Wrong Your Entire Life

Watch: You've Been Resting Wrong Your Entire Life

This video flips everything you think you know about recovery by revealing that elite performers don't just work differently, they rest differently. The real game-changer here is learning about the seven distinct types of rest your body needs: physical, mental, sensory, emotional, social, creative, and spiritual. You've been sleeping eight hours and still feeling exhausted because you're only addressing one type of rest while ignoring the other six. The video shows that rest is the foundation of productivity.

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